She Ghosted??!?

Yeah, she ghosted.

You were excited about some hottie you met at the bar. Or at a work function. Or through your boy’s girlfriend.

Got her number and started texting. You were just about to set a time to meet her at a drinks spot you know…

Then she stopped responding.

What was so bad about your last text?

All you did was mention your job.

Maybe she’s just busy.

When do you follow up?

Ok, you followed up.

CRICKETS

Damn.

That stings.

This happens every day. All because men forget the simple truth of texting:

Texting is an extension of your personality.

It’s not just logistics and setting up the next date. It’s getting her to read what you’re writing and say “I still want to go on a date with him.”

You Can’t Go Through Dating Without Being Able To Be Charismatic Via Text

Open up your phone right now.

Look at the last message you sent a girl you’re interested in.

Do you honestly think that this meets the smell test?

Or are you burning up goodwill with her with every message you send?

You might be telling yourself that you can make up for it in person, but what if you never see her again?

And why not fix this hole in your game once and for all so you never have to worry about your text game ever again?

Being charismatic via text is much easier than doing it in person. This is a lay-up. Sending messages should be the tightest part of your game.

This Applies Double If You’re on the Dating Apps

At least if you meet a girl somewhere, you can build up enough attraction that it doesn’t matter if you’re a flat texter.

But if you meet her through the apps and can’t text… she will read your messages in a boring monotone.

She doesn’t know any better. You’re just a few photos that she swiped right on, and now a bleh personality.

Hundreds of Men Have Sent Me Their Texts For Review

My name is Pat Stedman. I’ve served as a dating coach to 350+ men and spent over 4,000 hours doing one-on-one coaching to help them get better with women.

In a few messages, I’m able to identify a lingering issue not just with their texting but with the entire way they interact with women.

Because how you write is how you communicate.

The same unconscious leakages and neediness are front and center, scaring women off.

So when a guy can’t get a first date or maintain attraction, I assume the issue is that they can’ text.

Canned Routines Are Not the Answer

When I first started texting women, I thought texting was about passing on information. It didn’t matter how you said something; texting was just a fast, convenient way to get your point across.

I was mistaken. Big time.

Like in speaking, most of what you communicate to another person in texts has nothing to do with the literal content. Tone and style make a huge impact on how well a text lands.

When I realized this, I immediately sought out the advice of “gurus”.

One guy’s “text game” was very goofy and over-the-top flirtatious. It didn’t seem like my style, but I thought, what did I know? I sucked at texting, not him, right?

However, my results were far from ideal.

Some honest conversations with girls revealed that this was sending a very “off” vibe.

I was trying (and failing) to be them.

Although I was more or less copying and pasting someone else’s words, they weren't coming across naturally.

They didn't fit the rest of my tone or demeanor. Something intangible was missing.

Me.

The thing is… when you’re used to buying product after product telling you what you “have to be” it can be hard to imagine... but the biggest way to succeed in texting is not to craft a new persona, but to portray the highlights of your own.

You’ve Already Got the Personality You Need

I’ve had clients talk a good game and then show me the most unchill, needy texts ever.

By coaching them out of the issues behind these texts, they were getting more first and second dates. And most of all, it felt natural.

We are not reinventing your personality by getting you to be fake-alpha, goofy, or use an embarrassing amount of emojis.

No, we’re just making sure that the messages you’re sending are saying what you want them to say.

That’s what my book is all about.

INTRODUCING:
TACKLING TEXTING

Before you think that this is only going to help your text game, I want you to know this can help you get better at all parts of dating. You can use your texts to figure out when you sound needy or boring, and fix that so you don’t blow any dates.

It’s the perfect feedback mechanism.

Because subcommunication is the root of all your issues. Texting is just how we diagnose and fix it.

This guide was written for men who want better results but don’t want to use Low IQ canned routines that women will quickly see through.

Inside the book are 26 principles you can use to improve your texting and get better results.

Here are just a few things you’ll learn inside:

The 3 tricks I use to make sure the first message hits hard (and makes it so every message after that is well-received)
How to avoid playing games while keeping the temperature up high (this is a tough line to walk, but I have some good rules for you)
Some simple tricks for connecting emotionally *without* typing a small novel
Simple hacks that jack into her curiosity and make her feel like she's a part of your life (and wants to be)

Oh, and it’s $9. When I was younger, I would have paid a heck of a lot more than that to keep women interested. I had to figure this stuff out on my own or by paying coaches… you get all of it served up to you in one convenient book.

Teach Me How To Text, Pat!

Over 1,000 Men Have Purchased Tackling Texting So Far

They bought, implemented, and benefited from the lessons in the book… and here’s what they had to say:

“how do cycles of tension and resolution change in a long term relationship?”
“how do I get past the feeling of being completely dejected? I’m deep into self-improvement, yet as my standards grow higher I seem to have less options than ever”
“What’s stopping me from getting a date? Girls say I have a confident, chill, nice calm energy.”
“People often advise to do the inner work. What does this look like to you?”
“Is it a waste of time to date women with opposite political views”
“ExGF has a boyfriend but still texts me to hang out. How should I respond to this?”
“What is the right balance for having sex with your partner for the rest of your life?”
"Should I let go of my ego? And if so, how?"
“How do I get my more misogynistic and material friends to see the light? Friend dating a great girl, cheated on her, yet says he wants to find a stable relationship.”
“What are your thoughts on hypersexual girls that need lots of attention. Are they high cheat risks?”
“What happens if a date goes badly?”
"How can you tell if you should really break up with your girlfriend, or whether it's just temptation?"
"Do women also lead sometimes in healthy, integrated relationships?"
“Is love compatible in a Red Pill frame?”
“When do breaks or space make sense in a relationship?”
"What's the relationship between deep work and taking action? Is one better than the other?"
“Besides finding hobbies, how do you meet more women?”
"Does breaking up and sleeping around permanently damage a woman's ability to pair bond?"
"How do you get a needy or emotionally avoidant woman to become integrated?"
"What's the benefit to friend-zoning women?"
“How do I get less needy and attached to women without banging my way through all of them?”
“Who should I be going out with? Just guys, girls or a mix?”
“Can people change?”
"First date tactics and logistics: what should you do when you're about to meet a girl for your date?"
“My passions for women fade once I “figure them out.” How do I stop this from happening?”
"How do I get my wife to lose weight?"
"Online dating before and after COVID - what should you do?"
“How should I handle a breakup?”
"Can men and women just be friends, especially if they have a sexual history together?"
PLUS many more!

You’re Not Just Changing Your Texts, You’re Changing Who You Are With Women

This book teaches you 26 key lessons for what to watch for and work on in your own texting

And it’s $9 right now.

Tackling Texting is the antidote to ghosting. And you can get it right here, put it to use, and start seeing results as soon as this weekend:

Deep Psychology, Energy, and Frame ($24.95 Value)
Female Nature and Vetting Women ($97.00 Value)
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Attraction and Game ($97.00 Value)
Dating Strategies and Social Dominance ($97.00 Value)
Relationship Management and Intimacy ($97.00 Value)

Total Value $690

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P.S. - if you're skimming and just wanted to see what the offer was... for just $9, you can get Tackling Texting, a book on fixing your text game so you can stop getting ghosted and start getting consistent results with women.